Its true. You don’t. And my first was at a Buddhist
Monastery.
Before your mind gets any dirtier, I’d like to remind you
that this is a travel blog. And ofcourse I am talking about my first trip. I
was awake for days thinking about where to go to. Over the years, I have
discovered that planning trips is more exhausting than even being on one,
especially when going on it depends on someone else (you know who you are).
I will deliberately try to talk less about the actual places
I have visited since I feel that you should really experience them for your own. Ofcourse I
will talk about some things about them that make each place special.
I had 10 days around the time of Diwali and being the
religious nut that I am (read: sarcasm), I thought it is the perfect moment to
start. I spoke to some friends which was absolutely useless. I kept telling
them I want to go to 2-3 places and they kept telling me to go to places which
would take all of 10 days. Finally, I decided that my friends could not be
relied upon for this important milestone in my life. Afterall, they still have
not found a way to get out of having to work for a living, so how smart could
they really be.
I went straight to work on the one source we all rely on, a
source even closer to our secrets than our best friends or our parents, a
source that knows everything we want to know- Google. I carefully typed “places
near bangalore” and boom! I discovered a site that is now my bible for travel
in India- www.mustseeindia.com. Also it helped that the name of the website
caters to my very basic needs of travelling. So this very important site that I
just promoted on this blog led me to a list of a number of places that I could
go to. I always thought asking the internet is better than asking actual human
beings and this was the last confirmation I needed.
Now before you think that I am one of those people who
travels with everything ready to restart civilization in case of Armageddon,
let me assure you that I have lost count of the number of times I have had to
buy things because I thought something would be available at the guest house or
hotel I was staying at and since it was one I found to be the cheapest and
sorta reliable, it ofcourse did not have any such amenities (I am amazed at not
being corrected by Mr. Bill Gates aka Microsoft Word for that long sentence).
So I narrowed down on 3 places and decided to begin with
Kushalnagar.
Kushalnagar is about 4 hours 45 minutes away from Bangalore
and can be reached by bus directly. I took the KSRTC bus through online
booking. And I must say that all KSRTC buses are the best ones I have ever
taken. I actively go out of my way to promote them to anyone and everyone who
comes in my travel path or is subjected to conversations about them.
The journey began early morning 8am. I packed all clothes
that I felt would make me less attractive to potential or in-the-making
rapists. I also felt that there must be some statistic somewhere which said
that women who wear glasses are less prone to being raped so I packed my
no-power glasses which I only use occasionally on trips alone to escape earlier
mentioned great men who’d make lovely husbands one day I am sure.
I took the local Bangalore bus to travel to the Majestic bus
stand in Bangalore and went about searching frantically for my bus asking
onlookers which platform it comes on and if its ever late and any other
question they could understand and answer. With time, I have gotten really good
at finding buses on bus stands anywhere. I now believe in the golden rule of
‘Avoid Eye Contact’. India is not the best country to travel alone especially
if you are a girl but it can be if you take the right precautions and I ensure
I do.
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At the Majestic bus stand. Taken from my Nokia E63. |
I slept through half the journey and discovered my reason to
not sleep during day travel or as far as possible during even night travel- the
journey to most destinations is amazing if not more amazing than the
destination itself, in the other half of the journey. When the bus stopped at a
Kamat food joint on the way, I decided to risk eating some local food but I was
surprised at how clean the place was and how tasty the pongal was. As usual,
the quantity proved to be too much for me but I smiled meekly as the waiter
looked at me in disbelief of food being left in the plate.
Before reaching Kushalnagar, I had a clear agenda and
itinerary in my mind. My only reason to visit Kushalnagar was to go to
Bylakuppe, a town nearby which is home to 2 Buddhist settlements and the Golden
Temple of Buddhist culture. I had booked
a guest house opposite to the Golden Temple which is run by the monks from the
temple. Its a small and comfortable place with basic cleanliness in place.
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On the way to Kushalnagar. Taken from my Nokia E63. |
Before moving on to Bylakuppe, I thought of quickly grabbing
my lunch since this was a bigger town and would have better food joints. Oh how
wrong I was. The tourist places have the best joints, always. I made my way to
a restaurant almost next to the bus stand and ordered for their egg curry and
rotis. Well the curry felt like water with salt and the rotis were half cooked
only. Thereafter, I caught an auto and after the obligatory 10 mins of
bargaining, I gave in and took it. The way to the guest house was a little strange
but only since I had never travelled alone and hence kept hoping I don’t get
kidnapped. Thankfully, I didn’t.
On reaching the guest house, I was pleasantly surprised to
see the guest house complex very lively and full of monks. Monks here, monks
there, monks everywhere. Monks on foot, monks on Royal Enfield’s, monks hopped
onto trucks. I made my way to my room and decided to not waste any time before
heading to the monastery. It was a sight for sore eyes that never realized how
sore they were until now. Everything was new, everything was alien and I
couldn’t love it more. The entrance to the Golden Temple is huge and always
crowded with smiling monks of all shapes and sizes.
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Monks exiting temple post prayers. Taken from my Nokia E63 |
I made my way to the corridor that is surrounded on both
sides by monk’s living quarters and I could see so many of them just going
about their daily chores unfazed by the hordes of visitors watching them. It
made me think of a zoo and suddenly I wasn’t sure who was the one outside the
cage and who the monkey getting peanuts.
On entering the main temple, I was at a complete loss of
words. I had never seen such huge statues basking in their colour of gold. It
was absolutely beautiful without compaision. I noticed that there were small
pillows on the side to sit on. I took one and meditated for as long as I felt
like and then made my way back to my room. I had been carrying a Haruki
Murakami book with me and took it to the juice shop next door to the guest
house within the complex itself. The shop was filled with monks joking around
with the shop boy and he seemed very sweet and not bothered to disturb me even
as I sipped my juice ever so slowly while reading my book quietly. My speed
could have given competition to any old blind lady crossing the road at night. I watched the night draw closer while I lazed around and watched the cloud turn into tiny drops of rain before retiring to my room for a night of tv and more reading.
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One of my best evenings. Taken from my Nokia E63. |
I woke up early the next day to go straight to the main
Golden temple for the morning prayers. The music instruments they use during
the chants are simply amazing. The sound is something that needs to be
experienced. It is soothing to the ears and makes you think of nothing.
Absolutely blank and absolutely brilliant. After the morning prayers ended, I
spent some time meditating in the other temples as well and then made my way to
the monastery’s cafeteria. I had read about the Buddhist breakfast and wanted
to experience it. To this day, I have not tasted anything worse. But do try it
out for fun.
The Golden Temple monastery is also called the Namdroling
Monastery and is one of the largest. There is another Buddhist monastery close
to the Golden Temple called the Sera Monastery which has a lot of students
studying there as well. Apparently, being a monk is a tough job. Its not all
about being round and looking cute in a very airy robe.
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Prayer Flag at the Sera Monastery. Taken from my Nokia E63 |
I took an auto to the Sera Monastery which is different from
how Golden Temple is since it has several temples, library and school of the
monastery spread over a village and not all in one place. I walked on the
streets while asking locals for directions to the different temples and other buildings
I could visit. While on my way to one of the temples, I met a monk named Sonam.
Sonam was a monk who did not teach but did other odd jobs like plumbing etc in
this village. He said he would be happy to show me around and so he did. He
also explained some of the traditions monks follow while in school like active
debating, praying everyday and how difficult it is to be a monk. But he added
in how much fun they have with the simpler joys of life.
There was a protest happening by the local students against
the traditional Tibetan books being translated in Chinese. There were hundreds
of students on the roads with banners and slogans for this. I was told that a
special meeting is happening between the protesting students and the main head
monks to discuss how to best resolve the unrest. I have to say that I have
never seen a more peaceful debate in my life. Both sides seemed so sweet to
each other that I didn’t understand how either is supposed to win.
Unfortunately, I had to leave as it started to get cloudier. Sonam was nice
enough to give me his number in case I needed some help. Sadly, I deleted it
after his 5th message asking me how I am doing in 3 days.
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Evening coffee with a lovely book. |
Within each of the temples, the architecture is absolutely
beautiful. Every carving, every draped and embroidered cloth and every
sculpture is absolutely beautiful. While on my way back, I stopped by Olive
Kitchen where they serve some amazing Chinese and Tibetan dishes. Thereafter, I
made my way back to the guest house on foot and went to my room and read my
book at the juice shop again. This was my evening ritual there. By the end of
my trip, the juice shop boy was a friend. While reading the book, my ears
caught a song playing in the shop which I had not heard before but seemed to
really like. The song is “How to save a Life” by “The Fray”. If you have not
heard the song, do hear it. Lovely lyrics that I totally related to.
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Walking all over for hours. Taken from my Nokia E63. |
On my 3rd day there, I decided to spend more time
in Golden Temple and spent the whole day lazying around and walking in the gardens
and the temples of the complex. In the late afternoon post lunch, I decided to
check out the library and made my way across the side of the main temple to
enter the library. Upon entered, I was greeted by a monk who bowed down to say
hello, I presume. As I bowed down and came back up, I noticed he had a packet
in his hand. He smiled and handed it to me. He could see me confused and told
me in broken English “Because you come to library”. Now this was an innovative
way to get people to stay in the library longer. It had mango juice, biscuits,
chips and noodles. I finished almost all of it there while reading poetry books
I have already read in school and had forgotten over the years. It was definitely one of the quietest days of
my life and I loved it.
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All day long prayer ceremony. Taken from my Nokia E63 |
On my way out, another monk stopped me and told me that it
is the 1st day of the month according to their calendar and they
have a day-long prayer ceremony every 1st day of a month and that if
I can, then I should come. I smiled and thanked him for the invite. I woke up
early the next day as I also had to leave for my 2nd destination
late morning after breakfast. I made my way to the main temple and was saw that
the prayers already in progress. I also saw few younger monks playing around
while chanting and being reprimanded and asked to do few push-ups as punishment
by one of the head monks. There were also few monks distributing some water and
food to the monks and audience alike. I took some and thanked them for the
kindness. For the next few hours, the monks only stopped for short breaks in
the middle of chanting and I meditated with them.
It was peaceful. It
was quiet. It was different than anything I had experienced before. This is not
a place where time stops… this is a place where time is irrelevant.